How To Spiritually Remove Someone From Your Life

#i 24-07-2011, 12:33 PM

For a long fourth dimension I've had this odd relationship ... only it'south more a frendship. I want it to end and even when I say it's over and finished they even so keep coming back and like a weak person I merely keep answering the phone and door.

I'chiliad really needing, assist, inner strength to deal with this. To not be and then weak and nice to answer the door and bring them in and to answer the phone. It's similar an odd sort of addiction and one that I actually don't want.

I'd similar to motion forward and put it backside me equally that person brings alot of negativity into my life and business firm and I don't feel happy when they are around. In fact I feel quite misrable merely I seem to be behaving like I'm on some kind of automatic push the mode I reply. This I'm not happy with as I was so much stronger alot of years ago.

Whatever, help or advice on how I tin can sort this out every bit it's went on far likewise long now. Possibly even some, inner strength energy, if you are able to aqueduct it to me? :-)

I need to get this person out my life.

#2 24-07-2011, 12:48 PM

hi Sparkle,

I read something awhile ago in the Wicca department, it was kind of like a spell, simply a simple affair. I haven't tried it simply e'er wondered if it works... here information technology is, as I call up it (if I left something out, and someone knows it ...please correct me ) . I think they said to do this, while the person is at your house, but non to brand it obvious.... however, in your case of this person keep returning, you might want to make it obvious.

Accept a broom, open your door and as you sweep out the door say " I sweep the negativity and this person out the door, never to return here anymore " .

You are taking a slight chance they might retrieve you have stepped over the edge merely information technology just might be what it takes to go them to exit y'all lonely !

best wishes to you,
Dream Affections xx

#3 24-07-2011, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Sparkle

For a long time I've had this odd relationship ... but it'south more a frendship. I want information technology to terminate and even when I say it'southward over and finished they still keep coming back and like a weak person I just go along answering the telephone and door.

I'm really needing, help, inner strength to deal with this. To non be and then weak and dainty to answer the door and bring them in and to answer the phone. It's like an odd sort of addiction and one that I really don't want.

I'd like to movement forward and put it behind me as that person brings alot of negativity into my life and business firm and I don't experience happy when they are around. In fact I feel quite misrable just I seem to be behaving like I'm on some kind of automated button the style I respond. This I'thousand not happy with equally I was so much stronger alot of years ago.

Any, help or communication on how I can sort this out as information technology'south went on far too long at present. Perhaps even some, inner strength energy, if you are able to aqueduct it to me? :-)

I demand to get this person out my life.

Howdy Sparkle ---are you a Pisces - LOL

I've but gotten ii (guy) friends out of my life - I never tell them!!

I take days to answer their emails. Don't reply their calls.
One I actually made a appointment with (my mistake) and then cancelled at iv:30am in an email - with no explanation. ---"About tonight I have to abolish."
Non much else said except information technology was nice seeing him last week. Information technology was, a bit.

Really, they start to contact y'all less and less.
I am never hateful or hurtful..."Just really decorated..."

We can not be effectually people that practice not aid our spiritual growth.
Or leave us with the heebies or a feeling that we wasted our time, either.

For me sometimes people are merely tiring after awhile - with their intellects and debating and questionings all the time...I want to be around
open up people with an enthusiasm to grow, non locked into dogmas or doctrines like sheep.
Boring, waste product of my fourth dimension when
they never "motion", ever staying combative to dissimilar ideas, thoughts, feelings, realizations, books...

#4 24-07-2011, 01:43 PM

Being really busy works Miss H :) I also have "friends" that seem to want to hang out, only to find they really just want me to practice psychic readings. Non one, simply for everything in their life!

I may answer the phone but I tell them that I'yard but too busy to "hang out". No I can't give them a "quick" respond on the telephone I accept to go. etc.

Finally they just stopped calling and stopped coming over. When I saw them come to my door, I didn't reply. If I got swayed into answering, DON"T invite them in. I detest to tell fibs simply I will do and then when they are bringing in negative free energy. I once coughed my butt off so that my "friend" would leave thinking the house was ill.

Practiced luck :)

#**five** 24-07-2011, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted past Medium_Laura

Being really busy works Miss H :) I also have "friends" that seem to want to hang out, only to discover they actually only desire me to do psychic readings. Non one, merely for everything in their life!

I may answer the phone simply I tell them that I'thou just too decorated to "hang out". No I tin can't requite them a "quick" reply on the phone I have to become. etc.

Finally they but stopped calling and stopped coming over. When I saw them come up to my door, I didn't answer. If I got swayed into answering, DON"T invite them in. I hate to tell fibs but I will practice so when they are bringing in negative energy. I once coughed my butt off then that my "friend" would leave thinking the house was sick.

Expert luck :)

Boy, do I relate.
I am used as a drug often -people get really high talking to me, desire to hang, desire to get a drink, want to be my friend - but they don't bring alot to the table.

However, I never fib fifty-fifty alittle.
Here:
ane. "Oh, I just can't brand it." (to yourself) Yous'll be reading comic books at that fourth dimension.
2."Oh, that time'due south not going to work for me." (to yourself) That'south when I sentry Desp. Housewives reruns...
3. "Oh, nope the next few days are taken." I'll exist reading and gardening...
See the pattern.

If you must be extreme: "I think I may take a tum bug."
(We all accept bugs in our tummies effectually the clock, ever.)

I never lie, tho. It's just not practiced energy, you lot know what I mean.
Miss Hepburn

#6 24-07-2011, 02:43 PM

Just say yous�re busy & this isn�t a skilful fourth dimension. Then DON�T LET THEM IN.

Answering machines are really cheap & tin can be quite useful. One doesn�t have to pick up the phone just because i is in at that betoken or answer a message that is left. If challenged, but blandly comment, I�ve been busy. Realize that they are using a rude challenging device to intimidate you & this is bullying.

#**seven** 24-07-2011, 02:48 PM

Truly it's all about setting those boundaries in our lives :)

No means... um NO!

#8 24-07-2011, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Dream Angel

...I read something awhile ago in the Wicca section, it was kind of similar a spell, just a simple affair. ... I think they said to do this, while the person is at your business firm, but not to arrive obvious ... still, in your case of this person keep returning, you might want to make information technology obvious.

Accept a broom, open your door and every bit you sweep out the door say " I sweep the negativity and this person out the door, never to return here anymore " .
...

This isn't a spell, but a useful visualizaion. It is a 'spell' on i's own energies, simply I'thou non not bad on using the word 'spell' as it implies something magical when information technology isn't. It is just working w/ our own thoughts. If one must view information technology as a spell, this is OK & hopefully they will motility on to realizing that they can but use their focused intent to empower their self to take needed activeness. One can mentally visualize this at any time.

#ix 24-07-2011, 03:23 PM

Sparkle

Its because you are kind that the person gets in ~the person to be kind to now is really yourself ~ Yep to save drama I have told big fat fibs .. my intent though was non to do whatever harm ... ID just say upon answering the door ..ph .etc ... that I was about to have some romance and sex and could not talk..Good day :)

Ever works .. and hey its the power of positive thinking too :)

:)

#10 24-07-2011, 04:07 PM

Thanks for all replies.

In the by I accept said, it'south over, it'south finished etc. but they just go along coming back no matter what I say and of class I go on opening the door. My own fault it has fallen into this blueprint. I use to exist so much stronger but with this person I have felt run down and _low_ with the way they accept been towards me.

For a long time I've actually wanted to bring this state of affairs to an stop just information technology's like I just don't know how. It seems easy and years ago information technology would take been easy merely it's different when your defenseless upwardly in it. I really never idea I would ever take been in a situation like this in my life.

When they are not in my company I'm total of force thinking I'm away to finalise this once and for all.

They practise have a bad temper and information technology's like they take some kind of invisible influence over me.

I will probably switch my voicemail on now, on my mobile, I think that is a practiced thought only I just demand to take the strength to ignore the door when they are continually banging on it.

I will visualise that "spell". Doing that in forepart of them I could see a few bug with that.

Thanks again for all the replies and I recollect reading all the higher up will help in some manner. I just feel like I'm wasting my life on this constant treadmill with having them around nearly every twenty-four hours and I so much just want to finalise it as they are really not good for me.

Just been reading information technology all over again.... and I similar the busy thing also, but I just to carrying it through equally they are and then used to me just answering the door and simply coming in ... automatically. I have been _close_ in the past. Well, that is what I'yard going to telephone call it, close :-)